Understanding the "Dark Triad Personality"
- Vivi
- Sep 25, 2024
- 3 min read
What it is and how it is connected to our lives?
Do you have a little demon inside your heart?
Have you ever had an evil thought that pops into your head?
Or even acted in a way that most people would consider mean?
In fact, everyone might possess some "evil" traits to some degrees.
Psychologists Delroy L. Paulhus and Kevin M. Williams refer to these three antisocial personality traits—Narcissism, Machiavellianism, and Psychopathy—as the "Dark Triad." People with these traits typically lack empathy and might cause issues for society.
The Dark Triad personality theory does not only study extreme psychological abnormalities (such as serial killers). The research also explores traits found in the general population. Elements of the Dark Triad are found within each of us, as everyone has a little bit of narcissism, selfishness, or a tendency to challenge societal moral norms.
In this essay, I will introduce the Dark Triad and share how to face our darker side. So, if you want to learn how to coexist with your inner demon, keep reading!
Understanding the Dark Triad Personalities
Research shows that the three traits of the Dark Triad are interrelated, yet each possesses distinct characteristics. The Dark Triad is not about extreme psychological abnormalities (like murderers), but rather about exploring the "evil" traits that the general public might possess. Everyone might have some of these traits to some extent. However, if you recognize these traits in yourself, don't panic.
Narcissism
Narcissism involves being overly self-centered, displaying dominance, and having a sense of superiority. They often exaggerate their importance and believe they deserve special treatment, ignoring others' feelings and lacking empathy. Interestingly, they might actually feel insecure and self-critical internally, relying on external validation to satisfy themselves.
Machiavellianism
Named after the 16th-century political philosopher Niccolò Machiavelli, this trait represents a person who is adept at manipulating others. They are like sneaky strategists. They're good at manipulating others to get what they want, even if it means tricking or using them. Machiavellians view people as inherently selfish and do not believe in genuine goodness.
Psychopathy
Psychopathy is characterized by low empathy and responsibility, and a cold, unfeeling nature. Psychopaths are impulsive, show no remorse, and disregard societal norms. This is when someone acts without caring about hurting others. They might lie, cheat, or even do bad things without feeling bad about it. However, psychopathy is not synonymous with mental illness; it describes a set of traits that even mentally healthy people can exhibit.
Facing Our Dark Triad Traits
Everyone might exhibit Dark Triad traits at times, often suppressed due to education or societal norms. If we notice these traits emerging, we can try to accept and transform them. For instance, in the workplace, when you recognize narcissistic behavior, try listening to others more, setting aside the belief that only you are right, and being open to different ideas.
Can the Dark Side Be Charming?
Sometimes, Dark Triad traits can make someone seem intelligent and charismatic. When used appropriately, these traits can have some advantages. For example, narcissism can boost stage confidence, and Machiavellianism can help in strategic workplace management.
There's no such thing as a 100% good or bad person. If we find ourselves with a dark side, don't despair. Instead, try to highlight our good traits and transform our inner demons. Through dialogue and gradual acceptance, we can adjust and improve ourselves!
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